Avoid these Mistakes!
1. Don't date anyone a friend used to like. Doubly so if they used to date.
2. Avoid too fast too soon. Let your relationship develop naturally.
3. Make sure that the other person's dating values are similar to yours.
4. Don't take classes or live together just because you're dating someone, break-ups can make these situations very awkward.
Now some tips for the guys:
1. Eye contact and body language! You're a confident alpha male that can get any woman he wants. Women pick up on these cues, so when you approach a girl, make eye contact, don't look away, stand up straight, and don't cower like a scared puppy!
2. If there was ever an attitude that women fall in love with, it's the cocky and funny attitude. The "I could care less if you were attracted to me 'cause I know I can get you and any women in this room, and I'm definitely gonna bust you for little things, but hey at least you're laughing" attitude works wonders.
3. Do not shower women with gifts and money. It just shows that you're trying to compensate.
4. Best first date spot? The local coffee place, a good place for stimulating conversation. The dinner and movie dates don't allow for interaction, and more often than not, women fall too much in love with the movie characters to focus on you. (read: Wall-E)
5. Do not pick up girls in the gym! I repeat DO NOT PICK UP GIRLS IN THE GYM! Girls are there to exercise, not to get hit on. Besides, you're sweaty, she's sweaty and not feeling at all hot, so just avoid it.
6. Best place to meet a girl on campus? Classes and bookstores are a great start. For example, you can start by meeting girls in class by forming study groups, or finding someone with similar interests in the bookstore.
7. Witty comments! Back to the bookstore, suppose you find a hot girl reading some celebrity tabloid. Go up to her and say, "Reading fine American classic literature, I see." This works wonders and opens up a world of conversation. Point is, don't make a typical comment that's predictable.
9. Don't worry about rejection! So what? You move on, and you approach your next target.
Some tips for the ladies
Really now, women don't need tips. Women have and always will be at the advantage in terms of attracting guys. But what if there's that one guy that you just can't get over? Saying, "Hi!" would be a good start. I can't get over how often girls complain about not being able to meet guys and getting together with that one guy they like, yet not even say a single word to them. Look, not every guy is going to approach you and we're notoriously bad at reading body language, so we don't have any idea that you like us. Moral of the story? Introduce yourself and let your personality and beauty do the rest.

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